My boi!

My friend Angela's hubby had a work buddy that he thought would be really good to fix me up with. His name was Patrick. Of course, I started calling him Patty. Peppermint Patty...



Jody texted me a picture of him and he was nice looking. I remember getting the picture when I was at the Justin Timberlake concert. lol We talked for about a week and he was just kind of hard to talk to. It was kind of like pulling teeth. He has a son whom he talked about alot. The thing that got me though is he called him~~ "His boi" Kind of like Big Boi from Outkast. He was very country... I can see him eating fried chicken and collard greens. lol



No, really~he is a printer. So, is my dad so I knew that he was probably a good guy. He didn't do much, so Angela ensured me he would shower me with gifts. haha! The Wednesday before we were supposed to go out, he called acting all big and bad. "Where do you want to go to eat?" I had already told him my favorites. He has never been to Outback or Olive Garden. Those places are expensive. Then he said "Does Red Lobster take reservations?" I was like no, they don't. I was in disbelief big time. I mean, I am very cultured. Go to eat at alot of different places and Red Lobster taking reservations. umm, no....



Angela and Jody were going to make it a double date so it wouldn’t be weird. So, I was talking to Patty about that and he was like nah, I don’t want them to be there, so if it’s like a train wreck~I can just get up and walk out. This was the last draw. I was like what do you mean. He goes to explain, well you know how you slow down to look at car wrecks~like at Nascar…. Yes, well I want to be alone and be able to leave quickly if it doesn’t turn out like I want it to. Ok, whatever. That really really bugged me, so I ended up leaving this long message, telling him I didn’t feel right about the train wreck comment and peace out. I remember telling lots of people about this one. I even told my Dad and he was like leave that MF alone. Lol

So, this was back in March because I remember we were supposed to go out on St. Patrick's Day~Peppermint Patty. I ended up at Park Tavern dancing my buns off with the Blue Jay instead. Glad I didn’t go to Red Lobster, had a much better time.

Then, Angela talked me into trying it one more time. We start conversing again in November. So, the plan was to meet at the Bowling Alley on a Saturday afternoon since he was going to have “his boi” with him. We meet and the bowling alley is having some kind of function, so he just is staring at me~What do you want to do?? I say “lets just go to the mall”. We go to the mall and eat at the food court. He gets Great Wraps and I get Chick-fil-A. His “boi” also gets Chick-fil-a that I pay for. So, not only do I have to buy my own food which isn’t a big deal~but I have to pay for his also. Can you say Rude???

We eat, go play some games and walk around. His son has a cold, so he is tired and ready to go. We walk to our cars and he kisses me very forwardly in front of his “boi” which I was uncomfortable with. One thing is to kiss, but not in front of your kid on the first date. Maybe I am old fashion, but I have standards…. Lol

So, I hear from Angela that Patty is talking about our date. Jody is giving Patty hell for not paying for my meal at the mall. Also, for not taking me somewhere a little nicer for lunch. Lol He is probably hating life right now. It wasn’t a total bad date, but we just weren’t a match… Train Wreck in Red Lobster has to go~ has to go!!